We all have experienced the power of words. Hurtful words can do irreparable damage, while encouraging words can set our hearts soaring. In "He Said. She Said." authors Jay and Laura Laffoon show readers how to access this power to bring strength and vitality to a marriage. Practical and fun, "He Said. She Said." explores the different inherent needs of men and women and empowers wives and husbands to meet those needs using eight phrases that will revolutionize their communication. By explaining how to use phrases such as 'I respect you', 'I desire you', and 'I believe in you', the Laffoons equip couples with the tools they need to nurture one another. Drawing from fourteen years of marriage ministry, the Laffoons tell numerous stories about married couples, provide excerpts of interviews, and report survey results from over two thousand couples. The book also includes probing discussion questions for church classes and small groups.